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Troy Davis

Troy Davis

We are heart broken over Troy Davis. Our prayers go out to his family and loved ones. “So Thank you and remember I am in a place where execution can only destroy your physical form but because of my faith in God, my family and all of you I have been spiritually free for some(…)

What Not to Do If Your Looking For Love

What Not to Do If Your Looking For Love

Via Essence 20 Behaviors to Avoid If Your Looking For Love by Paul C. Brunson. I just returned from an amazing trip to London where I hosted an event called The Big Conversation (click here to read a review). After my presentation, I had an interesting conversation with a young woman who questioned why she(…)

Is Your Hair Regimen Clogging Your Drain?

Is Your Hair Regimen Clogging Your Drain?

Ever since I started on my natural hair journey many many things have changed. I now use oils and butters instead of gels, mousses, etc… The downside to this is I have experienced chronic clogging of my drain which means backed up water and all that other yucky stuff almost everyday! Can anyone out there(…)

Zoe Saldana: “I am a Black Woman”

Zoe Saldana: “I am a Black Woman”

As I was searching for inspirational style pictures on one of my favorite style sites ”Black and Killing it” http://blackandkillingit.com created by Neil Alvin. I came across a small debate that seemed to stir when Neil posted a comment from a reader about a quote that the beautiful, talented and well known actress of Star(…)

20 Ways to Save Black Marriage

20 Ways to Save Black Marriage

Via Essence My brother Paul C. Brunson did it again with this article. I am an advocate for any race or ethnicity to get married and live happily ever after because love has no color in my mind, but this article takes a good healthy look at how to save black marriages. “Exhausted by finger-pointing(…)

Hard Work Does Not Mean Unmanageable Hair!

Hard Work Does Not Mean Unmanageable Hair!

When it comes to hair, a quick fix can sometimes feel like the only option that is placed upon a pedestal and revered more often than it needs to be where as hard work is looked as finding a needle in a haystack then losing it and finding again. I have received a couple of emails where(…)