Via Essence Are you Dating a Boy or a Man? by my brother Paul C. Brunson. Paul is speaking the truth in this article, and I have to say I believe every word of it because he himself, is a great example of a real man. Here’s what he has to say:

Sometimes, ideas for posts come to me in conversation, sometimes based on what I read, and other times I get inspiration from the real situations of my clients. My all time favorite source for ideas is Twitter. I find the social media platform to be the best pulse to find what’s of interest in our lives.

Recently, I’ve seen several people on twitter chiming in about their opinion on the difference between a boy and a man. I wasn’t compelled to respond until I saw several tweets articulating age as an important factor. While I believe age is part of the equation, let’s be clear: not every boy becomes a man.

What’s a woman looking for in love today?

1. Does He Accomplish or Destroy?

Boys consume. Men produce.

2. How He Handles Adversity?

Boys become selfish. Men are selfless.

3. Does He Have Baggage?

Boys have liabilities. Men possess assets.

4. Can You Trust Him?

You can put your trust in a man. Your trust is always lost with a boy.

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